I was working with a friend today and that was enjoyable. Went to help another friend out and that was gratifying.

But, then I come home and get on my laptop and their are the days you realize that okay let me see what I can do to bring some positiveness into someone else’s life.

A friend of mine, who I thought at one time was teachable and need some encouragement became discouraged and left things alone but remained friends. Which is OK.  I was willing to listen and talk on occasion but that didn’t take up my whole life.  It was 5 mins here and there.

Tonight posted something about making friends in her area. So I was throwing suggestions out to this person on where to meet people. Because, I too had a hard time making friends and becoming close to others due to being rejected.

So I said to her why don’t you step out of your comfort zone and go out to some networking groups and meet others instead of complaining and not having friends. So, people know about your past but you don’t have to remain in the past. You need to get up and dust yourself off  and become someone that you can like and trust.

As a good friend of mine says: The posture you have makes and takes you to the person who you need to become. I like that and keep that with me.

Even have to say it to myself at times. Because I do get down and I do stumble. But then I pick myself up and remember that I can do this. I need to pick myself up and work with others that have a higher posture than I do and learn from them.

Because the more I learn the more I am able to share with others and follow the posture that they have.