Letting people in your world and letting them know you make mistakes and you pick yourself up and you try again.
You bring up something from a year a go that was messed up and you make me loose people that had my back. Because of it. Then you try to get one of my friends to let them back in my group. People who talk about you and then want you in your group. Not knowing all the circumstances.
So if you don’t know the whole situation stay out of it.. But don’t assume the worse of a person because that person may have changed and have a heart of gold.